you have to have information.
I understand there may be some adoptees marching for their right to know who they are today in New Orleans so this is for them.
When all the studies say that mothers of children lost to adoption want to be found, why do people keep perpetuating the myth that records should not be opened because the “birth mother” was promised confidentiality.
As a mother, I can tell you no such promise was made to me. A penalty was imposed on me, that I would never know my child. It wasn’t what I wanted. Of course, that didn’t stop us. we searched for each other and we met.
If you are the mother (or father) of a child who was adopted and you’d really like to meet that child, speak up, make your views known.